Unschooling = The Ultimate Trust

Sep 02, 2023

When those of us who were conventionally or institutionally schooled consider what education is, we tend to see it in a fairly black and white way. A person listens raptly to their teacher, a wiser - older - person, takes on board their knowledge and jots down notes, memorises it to pass exams and possibly to utilise in later careers. 

A structured environment where students follow a set curriculum, attend classes, and take standardised tests.

However, around 50 years ago, an alternative approach called "unschooling" was coined by John Holt and has since been gaining popularity. Unschooling at its core, challenges conventional educational norms, offering a more flexible and student-driven approach to learning and came in the wake of a country infuriated by the loss of autonomy family's had as well as useful community skills, contribution and responsibility being demonstrated by young people. In this blog, we will explore what unschooling is, its core principles, benefits, and potential challenges.

So, what is 'Unschooling'?

Unschooling, often known as "self-directed learning" or "natural learning," is a progressive educational philosophy that centres on the idea that children are inherently curious and motivated to learn. Unlike traditional schooling, unschooling does not follow a structured curriculum, rigid schedules, or formal assessments. Instead, it encourages children to explore their interests and passions freely, allowing them to develop at their own pace and follow their own natural inclinations.

Core Principles of Unschooling

  1. Self-Directed Learning: Unschooling emphasises the autonomy of the learner. Children are encouraged to take charge of their education, deciding what they want to learn, when, and how. This approach fosters intrinsic motivation and a love for learning.

  2. Learning in Real-Life Contexts: Unschooling blurs the boundaries between formal education and life experiences. Learning occurs organically as children engage in everyday activities, pursuing hobbies, interacting with their community, and facing challenges.

  3. No Fixed Curriculum: Unschooling rejects the idea of a pre-determined syllabus or standardised curriculum. Instead, the learning process is shaped by the child's interests, passions, and developmental needs.

  4. Trust in Natural Development: Unschooling trusts that children will naturally acquire the knowledge and skills they need as they explore the world around them and interact with it.

So often the reason why we struggle to accept philosophies like these is fundamentally because of the experiences we have had. We reflect on our institutionally schooled childhood and see a child you would have loved to do anything but sit and do another maths lesson, but was a good girl (or boy) and did as they were told. This makes us believe that children cannot be trusted to want to do these subjects, to want to delve deeper and that unschooling must equal children playing video games all day. 

Building trust in your child to do what human children do best and find solutions to problems, build awareness and interest in their environment and figure out how to make the best of it ultimately pays off as life-long learners - unbound by boxes, deadlines or extrinsic motivation.

  1. Individualised Learning: Unschooling allows for personalised, one-on-one attention, catering to each child's unique learning style, strengths, and weaknesses.

  2. Nurturing Passions: By pursuing their interests, children can develop a deep passion for subjects that may lead to long-term careers or fulfilling hobbies.

  3. Flexibility and Freedom: Unschooling provides flexibility in scheduling, allowing families to travel, take breaks when needed, and learn at their own pace.

  4. Lifelong Learners: By fostering a love for learning, unschooled children often become independent and self-motivated lifelong learners.

Challenges of Unschooling

  1. Criticism and Misunderstanding: Unschooling is still considered unconventional by many, leading to skepticism and criticism from those who believe in the traditional education system - if you haven't yet downloaded my 'Defensive to Determined' e-mail series and find yourself fearing outside opinion, then definitely take a look

  2. Lack of Formal Credentials: Some critics argue that unschooled children may face challenges in accessing higher education or certain career paths that require formal qualifications but typically unschooled children can and do go on to achieve formal qualifications, they just do it on their own terms and on their own time-line.

  3. Parental Involvement: Successful unschooling often requires significant parental involvement, time, and commitment to facilitate the child's learning journey - but that's home education for you no matter how you do it!

  4. Uncertainty: Unschooling doesn't follow a predefined path, which can be unsettling for parents who seek a more structured approach to education. If you believe this is the way that feels right for your family then definitely consider how you are going to do the work to deschool and rid yourself of the belief systems that are currently making this feel stressful!

 

Unschooling can feel like a radical departure from the traditional educational model but it brings with it such freedom, trust, and self-directed learning. By placing faith in children's natural curiosity and passions, unschooling aims to nurture not just hugely academically capable individuals but also well-rounded, creative, and independent thinkers.

While it may not be suitable for everyone and comes with its challenges, unschooling offers a powerful alternative for those seeking a more personalised and holistic approach to education. As the world continues to evolve, exploring diverse educational philosophies like unschooling becomes crucial in shaping the future of learning and the next generation of lifelong learners.

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